If you had to choose, which sign(s) would you say you clash with the most?

topic posted Mon, June 8, 2009 - 9:05 AM by  CanScorpiTarius
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In my experiences the following three signs I clash most with, not all the time of course though but they are: (in no particular order)

Gemini, Aquarius and Aries.
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CanScorpiTarius
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  • hey im an aries...u must be a cancer? so u know cancer on my list but theyre just so cheap and sensitive...yes i said cheap.

    Anyway even though im addicted n love scorpios...we clash for the obvious reasons...i also clash with those extra helpful virgos...only cuz theyre always tryin to help me when i haven't asked for any help

    Ohhh and those geminis cuz theyre fuckin liars...that is all
    • Well Marvin, I was not intending to bash anybodies sign, just make a few opinions but I can see how you would be mistaken about Cancers' being cheap, we are not cheap, I am however very practical. Glad you asked, for example I would not spend a large amount of money on anything if I am not getting quality for my buck so to speak. I do splurge on occasions, for the right "occasion." And I will be the first to say that Cancers are sensitive BUT not soft, 2 different subjects. For my ex-wife we went shopping for her birthday, and pretty much everything and anything she wanted I bought her. Dropped about a G that day on clothes and accessories. She also knew it was her day so she took advantage. She would joke at first that I was cheap but as she got to really see how I spend my dough she did say I am not cheap, but very practical . . . and she is a Gemini ironically.

      Now with that being said, I tend to clash with Aries because they tend to just start problems when there is none, and they tend to be pretty vain. (for example look above this reply haha). I am not saying all Aries are so and anybody no matter there sign can be this way but this is just from my experience that is all. Aries are pretty emotional for a fire sign . . . and I didn't s-s-stutter haha. ; )
  • For me I clash with anyone that decided to clash with me, lol. But nah I sometimes I have issues with people that have a Pisces sun, more so with the guys. They seem to thinks its alright to not communicate for days at a time or even weeks! They are always in their own little fantasy world and forget about certain things too. Oh I can't stand the type that have a gemini moon! They are horrible! Have a weird fascination with always having the be right and like revenge sometime, but in a very twisted way.

    I get annoyed easily with Gemini women sometimes, depends on where their moon is, cause that'll tell me for when she gets emotionally, I'll know what to expect. But any that have more air in their chart, just seem wayyyyy too flaky. They never take the blame and have forgetful memories. I have a best friend with a Gemini sun, but she is on the cusp of a cancer. But she has a lot of Leo in her chart, so its okay lol.

    I tend to not get along with Scorpio's with leo moon's. They are to ego filled. Its always about them and whats wrong with them lol. If something is physically wrong, they freak out like the world is about the literally end! They love drama and end up dating a lot of guys, especially if you like one, they will some how start liking him lol. Its very weird this type of person, but it gets on my nerves and they like to always be in control.
  • ironically, even by being scorpio moon, I clash with cancers, scorpios, capricorns. I get attracted to scorpios because there is a deep understanding between each other but they are so vulgar in regards of talking about sex. My nature is being very reserved, I dont sound and seem like a libra myself only the appearance .

    I dont think this is a good topic for us because the appeal to certain signs depend mostly on the aspects and influences in your natal chart. But sincerely, I just cannot get along with cancers, capricorns, aries. Cancers are very greedy, unsensitive at some matters, and very clingy... they just cannot calm down go away... I just dont feel any connection with them, they can get too sensitive when we touch their heart. Aggressives yes when we think that only scorpios are aggressive thats whyI dont like water signs.
    About Gemini, this is a little much better, they are bearable for me but they can be mean and manipulative sometimes (this is their other face) Capricorns, my dear capricorns, they are vain and they like to stand out and be appreaciated by their appearance, money and lifestyle. My rising sign is capricorn, thats why I know a lot about capricorns but it doesnt mean I like them.

    My scorpio moon cannot bear the passionate emotions of other scorpios.. I understand them but I feel very scary about them when I know they are doing something really really bad. and when they are obsessed to know about my life (everything) Most of them are obsessed about sex, money, addictions of substance. They dig deeper on trying to investigate you Who who likes to be investigated and analyzed all the time??? do you scorpio moon people like that? I dont think so I just dont like to be tested. I keep my thing in a private way so why we should get along with other scorpios no way.




    • Oooo I have a bit of a problem with Cancers also. I can't stand the whining and they do it ALOT. I know I know... they are sensitive but there is sensitive and there is being a bawl baby and Cancers tend to cross that line. They get so damn defensive too. I've told a couple of my Cancer friends after listening to their gripes and advising them (nicely. I CAN be nice sometimes) to either do something about their situations or QUIT the whining. And then *I'm* the bad guy. *rolls eyes* Don't ask me if you don't want to know the honest truth. I'll let you vent for a while (months in many Cancer cases) but dwelling just to appear to be the "poor victim" and I loose patience and sympathy. I usually get the feeling that Cancers tend to use the victim mantality for attention and to manipulate people.
      Cappies I love. Yes they are vain and cynical but SO funny. They are just being true to who they are. I work with a Cappy girl that will tell me when I'm being a bitch without blinking an eye. LOL It's great. She's usually spot on and very dry. She's so cool and poised when she tells you off. That's so admirable.
      Scorp men and I tend to clash. They are assholes for no reason alot but then again... I can be too. Maybe it's just that I'm too much like them.
      • Cancers are the least clear cut sign in the zodiac lol @ your experiences with Cancers ... We are the hardest to describe in the zodiac because we cover so many facets of life and emotion that its hard to pinpoint us. Cancers biggest divider is the secure and the insecure. Those 2 make for the biggest divisor of this sign. Mel I see that Cancers get under your skin easily lol ... but you never stated your own Sun sign on this topic? Anyways a secure Cancer as myself is far from your description of Cancer. (sighs with amusement) So with that being said I am not that sensitive because I am not offended at all...amused and entertained yes. And when I do vent it varies from 30 seconds to a whole day but never months as you claim to know. I do know one thing and admit to this, I AM an asshole sometimes, psychic - very much so and feel others, sensitive? yes, soft? - nope, razor sharp tongue - if provoked, brooding - i have my moments and when I do I avoid dealing with people because I can hurt and make people FEEL what I say, defense is my best offense and not whiney, but a realist. I do analyze too much at times, I can take constructive criticism and I am a leader (Cardinal Sign) not a follower. Oh, and I CAN be a gentleman one minute and a complete asshole the next LOL.
        • but you are sensitive enough to post a rebuttal...but dont take that personal lol...i know how sensitive u cancers are lmao...ur a cool dude 69 and i wanted to know if i could call u "c69" for short?...Great. But yea anyway c69, i think its funny that you dont see your response as sign that you've been affected by what someone says.
          • I guess i should assume then that my aries comment hit a "soft spot" with you then??? And no, call me...J, yeh, that is better lol ... my response was one to "educate" broader minds. Question, if someone or anyone makes a statement that comes off as naive or perhaps ignorant, than would you not have a response to "correct". I guess not huh? LOL

            For example: All gays are bitch - ass. Now that would be an ignorant wouldn't it. I have a relative who is gay and I do not have a problem with his sexuality, in fact I could care less as long as he is happy. Are you happy Marvin??? By the way, you do not have to respond Marvin LOL.

            So to "correct" you, I am not sensitive enough to post a rebuttal but actually knowledgeable enough to help explain some of my own complex dimensions, (Cancers') if you are deep enough to understand. But I understand how easily you can take offense at my initial comment. (wink) hahahahaaa!
      • I ironically have many cancer people around me, so I am not being a narrow minded person when I describe them. This is a problem that they already have and of course, until they know what is their problem they will be able to be a better person. I have negative traits about me as a libra scorpio moon and I really have to improve myself everyday... learn and learn and keep learning in this cruel life. Yes, cancer people wants to be "the victims" and "the babies who wants to be pampered" they are not embarrased of that behavior at all but to me, this is vulnerability and I dont want a bf who would be like this. I advised my female cancer friend to stop whining and feeling like she is the only one who does "the hard work" or who is attacked or blamed by other people. She has to know what she is doing wrong in order to accept her negative behavior at work, with friends and with her family.
        I really feel frustrated about them, they are very stubborn to accept. their negative behavior.. and the worst thing is that they want to be too nice by providing everything and then they say "oh I give you everything I take care too much about you and you are doing nothing for me or I am doing the hard work in this relationship and you are not doing nothing..."
        When they are sick: "oh I am feeling sicker than you or I am the one who suffer this illness more than everybody else..."
        This is a victim disorder This would be included in the list of psychological disorders.
        It doesn make them to grow up and be a strong person. Actually, I am friend of cancer people because they have good traits too. They are organized, practical, and responsible about their time, their job and with their kids. Yeah they have a caring nature but we must give them some limit about this "caring nature" because they can become too possessive and demanding at the same time.

        I always keep my space with them... without space I can blow out like a volcano.
        • im actually surprised Aries is mentioned A LOT here. idk, its the "me first, me later" attitude that really annoys me, that and them not having any consideration on the way the talk or do things (especially if its an aries sun who just happens to have venus and mercury in aries too... oh boy).

          true, theyre brutally honest and they dont give a shit whether they hurt your feelings or not while being honest. and thats real unconsiderate. now now, no ones really expected to sugar coat things up all the time (and maybe that annoys aries people too =P) but theyre are just as many ways to be as straightforward, blunt and honest as you want YET being neutral and proper at the same time. scorpios can be like that too (brutally honest), but theyre just not pushy in the way aries people are, and they brood most of the time, so, again, most of the time theyre pretty much quiet (in this respect), thats OK.

          and, no, this is nothing personal about me being screwed up by an arian girl, prompting me to be quick about passing judgment on aries people or aries related matters, no. =P its just me synthetizing my life experience with arian people, whether it be boys or girls. im all unbiased here. there are signs (generally speaking, of course) i really couldnt care less for (virgo comes to my mind... maybe cancer too), but theyre OK as long as were OK and everyone keeps doing their stuff.

          its just aries people or several-placements-in-aries people have this... talent that let us clash. maybe i am a pussy after all, but, in general, theyre just so ill mannered that really rubs me away. theyre strong willed too, so, me being a 5 planets fixed signs person? NOT GOOD. so i just prefer to avoid any sort of conflict by staying as far away as i can from this people, or from people i believe have an arian flair to them.

          on the other hand, there are also many qualities i admire about them, and whish i could have myself. a knack for sports is one, and that daring, brave initiative-taking attitude. thats definitely a turn on! BUT. in the long run, general arian not-so-good stuff do tends to shadow their many many qualities, at least for me.
        • With all things being balanced as libras are said to be about. While we are on the subject of "negative traits" Libras, especially woman libras tend to be psychotic and quiet unbalanced within their personal life. Trust me, I know lol. You can admit it or not but I know every single Libra I have known has been psychotic about some thing or another. On top of that, they are the biggest teases of all the zodiac signs. They are prudes and almost enjoy sex the least of all the signs. They however can be psychotic about sex, which I have experienced in my own personal life and enjoyed I might add LOL. Charm and materialistic possessions are what drive a Libra and that is all good for them. They just in my experience, have been a waste of time for me in terms of relationship. No pun intended but if you want to try to state facts, we can do that all day. Add indecisive to that list lol. Sorry but I could not help myself. I cannot stand when someone points the finger and (if you wanna test this you can) three are pointing back at you.


          Positive traits about Libra are friendliness, social aviators and do not like confrontations. I like Libras as friends though, they are pretty outgoing and help you organize your life in terms of counseling. I respected your point of view of Cancers the 1st time but if you wanna add to your point, then I might as well add my 2 cents as well. I hope in all respects...
          • By the way, if you are trying to say Cancers are crazy, I would not lie...we are! LOL And I am not trying to say we are not, but we are NOT alone LOL!!!
            • Mr. 69... I have offended. Oops.
              That has been my experience with Cancers though I have a few Cancer friends. Nothing to take personally if it doesn't fit you. Though you made me chuckle a bit. Your reply totally proved my point ; ) VERY defensive... through the vail of amusement.

              I'm not trying to make enemies dude. Just saying. I'm a black and white kinda gal. No holding back.

              I'm a Scorpio... of course.
              • I can see where some would be turned off by Aries bold bluntness. Hell even *I* get a little hurt and pissy at my Aries guy when he says some of the things he says. But how can I get mad at him or hold it against him? He's just being honest. I admire that.

                Yes he's egotistical and very in your face with others. He rarely does it to ME though. Ha! That would be an epic fight. The thing is that I honestly don't think they mean to hurt feelings. They are just being true to themselves and I can't fault them for that.
              • Actually not at all, I will say it a-a-again and of course let us welcome a scorpio female, god bless ya'll, I have nothing but love for every single one of you. (wink AGAIN). I do not have to go into why I love ya'll do I? Let us just leave it at that. Smooches and kisses for you LOL. I got nothing but love for your kind LOL. Cancer I will add is the one of the few signs that can beat a scorpio at their own game IF you are not aware. If your game, not holding back and all...of course. I am in that grey area, so try if you are willing to gamble . . . hahahahahaaaa! Oh god I loooooooves me a scorpio woman, so damn feisty HAHAHAAAAAAAAA!
              • ~your reply totally proved my point~

                told u c69
                • riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight. LOL. I thought you were not going to reply...Marvin...hahahaaa. Yeh you are right (very sarcastic). Sure.
                  • This is the maximum depth. Additional responses will not be threaded.
                    lol well see i wasnt till mel indirectly and probably unknowingly backed me up

                    The aries in me wanted to respond BADLY but then the scorpio in me slapped him and said
                    "this is the internet and you know wuts true so wut does it matter"

                    and i think old scorpio is right
                    • LOL Marvin. I saw what you wrote and .....agreed.

                      69... Game? I was unaware that we *have* "game". lol Honestly I'm pretty straight up cut and dry. I don't like games hence my attitude.
                      I have played and played hard with Virgos and Cappies and was greatly challanged. I respect that they not only kept up with me but gave me a run for my money.
                      Cancers.... I find I tend to be a bit softer with if that is possible. No game playing with Cancers because for me *personally* there is no need.
                      • HAHAHAAAA...It would have been fun. But I respect that. And because I have love with Scorpio woman, I will leave it alone. I will say that we give Scorpio a run for their money, but I guess you have not experienced that..........................yet. (you might soon enough, one psychic to another. In one way or another, but I do not want to show my "soft" spot LOL). I respect your point of view though and will leave it at that.
                        • If it helps you can take a crack at us Scorps. : ) I'm not perfect (damn near LOL). I like to hear others opinions of what are faults are and learn from it.
                          Go ahead. This could get fun!!
                          • Im not sure if you were talking to me but ill take the invitation.
                            I STRONGLY hate the way a scorpio can NEVER be wrong and when you prove they are wrong they get pissyfor example:

                            My friend I were arguing one day about which sign starts the zodiac. This dumb bitch said it was Aquarius. It looked at her crazy but i didnt say anything yet cuz u know... Well, it pains me to say this, most of the time the scorpio is right,and theres nothing worse than calling a scorpio wrong when their right. Theyll use it against you for the rest of your life but in this case i knew she was wrong considering how I introduced astrology to her AND Aries is my mutha fuckin sign. How would i not know wut place I feel in...especially when im at the TOP. So after I was sure i was correct (lol) i brought it to her attention and this bitch called me all types of liars and idiots and when I showed her that she was wrong on a little thing i like to call astro.com she had the balls to say you probably just found out today and was testin me...I wanted to punch her in the face...but when dealing with scorpio you gotta let ALOT of shit go...for their own good and YOURS. But i keep scorpios around cuz yall are the only people who can handle me without me havin to walk on egg shells or explain myself
                            • Haha! Classic! Spot on.
                              I'll fess up and say yup guilty as charged! I hate to look like a fool and I will bend and manuver until I can find a way to appear to be right. Though I've been pretty good (I think) about swallowing my pride with my Aries fiance and coming clean when I'm wrong. If someone points it out and it's there in my face I'll give up but damn if I don't feel like a heel.

                              Wanna know my reaction? I'll try to come up with something I *know* I know more about then the other person just to make them look stupid and I save face. I'm SUCH a child. It's not one of my better qaulities but hell at least I know it :) I'm really bad about the one upping someone that has gotten me OR bringing a time up when I was right and they were wrong just to get "even". *sigh*
                              • ~I'm SUCH a child.~
                                LMAO i love that u put that...cuz like the aries, scorpios never wanna be wrong! and the aries is always viewed as childish cuz we throw tantrums and want to be right and have our way...just like who...SCORPIO but i think the difference is the calm cool collected way the scorpio goes about expressing wutever theyre expressing. But then again it could be aries...isnt ur mars or something in aries
                                omg i just peed on myself. Its nice to know that there are scorpios out there who are willing to admit to the wrongness they may sometime deliver.

                                P.S. Its real nice to hear that an aries and scorpio are makin it work! Im involved wit a scorpio...wish me luck
                                • Yay! Another Aries Scorp couple. It's challanging but VERY rewarding. I'm getting married in October.
                                  It's not been an easy road. We fight, power struggles, we constantly try to determine who is alpha in the relationship. Once upon a time when I really wanted to keep him I let him think he was alpha. It kept the peace but I was being manipulative. I didn't want that because it wasn't honest. We've since worked out the kinks (oh yes we have lol) We are equal. Nobody is higher then the other. It's hard for both of us to think like that and we need to constantly remind each other of that. So communication is the key. Alot of it!

                                  Yes I'll admit to being wrong IF trapped. LOL I like to think of myself as well informed and intelligent BUT I've learned the hard way to keep my mouth shut unless I know what I'm talking about or face the possiblitiy of looking foolish. LOL

                                  Good luck with your Scorp!!!
                            • All I will say is Water is the strongest element. The order of the first four elements is ... Fire, Earth, Air and Water...Water being last. I brought this up to a Sag and he agreed with me. If you put the elements in opposite order...Water, Air, Earth and Fire...Water allows Air, as Air allows Earth and Earth allows Fire...think about it for a second. Water placements are a gift and a curse, trust me it is. I am a Cancer Sun Scorpio Moon Sag Rising. I love my combination even though it hurts at times. But I have used it to my advantage, picture a crab with a stinger and arrows to shoot, its an ill combination. Water, Water, Fire...it is deep and all 3 help bring things to the table. Sag really helps when I feel things so deep that it helps or hurts. Overall it helps but I feel things so deeply in everyday life that it really bugs people out that really know me. I will tell them things and later on it will come true, some people are so dumb or naive that they do not want to admit when I am so right about things and others are intrigued. Much respect to all that have posted, and all the point of views. I love starting a topic that can stir things up. No offense to all and I really mean that. I love hearing different point of views whether I agree to it or not. It makes me think and that is ultimately what I want.
                              • I too enjoy a thought provoking post with differing opinions. It's how I learn more about myself. Even the parts I don't want to know.
                                I can be a little cool with my assesment and hurt feelings but I try to be as honest as I can because *I* personally find it more hurtful and a slight to my pride to have someone sugar coat things in an attempt to save my feelings then tell me like it really is.
                                My chart is made up mostly of Scorpio so I like to get "down and dirty" finding the REAL truth about me and others. That is why my partner is an Aries. He takes my stings left and right without blinking. It totally rolls off his shoulders. I worry sometimes about his emotional depth and if he really understands *what* I'm saying but he takes it in stride which is more then I can say for most men. I'm a very opinionated woman and sometimes it's a bit difficult for men to ....... um... handle me ; )
                                Peace 69. More to come from fiesty little me : )

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