A question for you scorpio moon folks.
If you fail in a contest or something you have put lots of effort in, you feel sad or angry. At this time, when someone talks about anything related to it with you because you still seem very hurt, would you direct the anger at that person? It depends on if the person is close to you, right? Say, if the person is someone you love or close to you. What would be your reaction?
My scorpio moon friend just failed in a contest recently, and he is very sad. He talked about it with me for about 4 days. The next day, when I mentioned about it cuz I thought it was the center of his life now, he got pissed off. He said, "it is over, why do you like to bring this up all the time?" He said, yesterday, he has already hinted enough that we should stop talking about it. His hind is very vague actually.
If you fail in a contest or something you have put lots of effort in, you feel sad or angry. At this time, when someone talks about anything related to it with you because you still seem very hurt, would you direct the anger at that person? It depends on if the person is close to you, right? Say, if the person is someone you love or close to you. What would be your reaction?
My scorpio moon friend just failed in a contest recently, and he is very sad. He talked about it with me for about 4 days. The next day, when I mentioned about it cuz I thought it was the center of his life now, he got pissed off. He said, "it is over, why do you like to bring this up all the time?" He said, yesterday, he has already hinted enough that we should stop talking about it. His hind is very vague actually.
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Re: scorpio moon dealing with failure
Fri, March 28, 2008 - 7:05 AMWhen i faile in something i tend to react identical like your friend.I can talk to someone close to me but only when i wanna talk about it,when i´m comtherbal to open up.
I have these talk with my sister,and when i feel comtherbal to talk about it, i will talk but when she mentions this some other time when i dont wanna talk about it, i get angry and irritated. That is because it still hurts but i dont want her to see it. So it´s like,ok, we talked, you have been there for me now leave it,i will take care of myself . It´s because a failure brings intense feelings of sadness, anger,emberesstment,and a lot of other emotional crap that i dont like anyone to see in me.
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Re: scorpio moon dealing with failure
Fri, March 28, 2008 - 8:06 AMIf and when I fail something, what I do is I will reflect on it (Release my anger by being alone, and if I do talk about it, its only with my tightest friends) and I will analyze why I failed it, and what I can do to succeed next time or use my energy of anger towards my determination energy and accomplish another or the same goal. I am persistent and when I am determined...Thats it, I am getting something, LOL!!! For real though... -
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Re: scorpio moon dealing with failure
Sat, March 29, 2008 - 8:02 AMFailure is not an option! I dust myself off and try again. -
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Re: scorpio moon dealing with failure
Sat, March 29, 2008 - 8:06 AMand yes, I do get upset and beat myself up for the failure, but the more constructive way is to use the anger, the disappointment for constructive use and apply that energy in a more determined way once you get back up and try again. It could be used to help you attain your goals.
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