Hi, I'm a pisces moon in a complicated situation with a scorpio moon. I can't explain every detail but pretty much us coming together was unexpected and the surrounding circumstances/outside factors were not at all ideal for our relationship to continue. It just seemed like a dead end and things were mutually called off for the time being. Recently, we ran into each other and I was pleasantly surprised to find out that I was still in this person's thoughts, very much so. I get paranoid that I'm being manipulated or that this person is playing the "nice guy" card...you know, saying really sweet things to me and that type of stuff just to get the upper hand-- but then I remember that he's been honest with me and told me less than pleasant things out of respect, which means a lot. The amount of time we were together was short, but it was anything but superficial. I'm actually a little creeped out about how a seemingly lighthearted flirtation transformed into emotional fireworks. I want to break all the rules and essentially throw myself at this person , but something is telling me that if I'm cautious something better is in store. Do you think that scorp moons require patience from others? How can you tell when they're being honest? I was wondering if there's a tendency to test people, or to test their loyalties rather. This is the most frustrating situation because there is an intensity I've never felt before but it's unfolding so slowly and in quite a cryptic manner....how's a girl to deal with a scorp moon male?!
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Re: aHhhh
Tue, May 6, 2008 - 4:34 PMWow! You were right when you said confusing situation.
When nothing seems to be making sense, trust your gut feelings, your instincts on this. Really, really search your true feelings. You are hesitant for some kind of reason it seems.
I am not going to ask you to tell the internet community what surrounding circumstances were at play in your separation from him, but they might give you clues as to why fate would not allow the union to happen. Or that bumping into each other could mean more now. It all depends on what he said to you, and how you feel. I know as a pisces moon, sometimes you can feel everything, and maybe what others are feeling too. So it's important that you spend time with yourself to separate how YOU truly feel about this.
Be careful with scorpio moons and manipulation though! Unfortunately, at a very young age us scorpio moons have learned how to control (via manipulation) situations very well. So I would not give everything to him until you get a better feel for the situation or his motives first. I only say this negative paragraph because it seemed to me that you don't like the situation, and that it's making you feel weary.
I've never dated a scorpio moon male. Blah! But I will say a few things pertaining to your questions. YES THEY TEST YOU. lol! The trickiest game they play boils down to a recurring, hidden script: "I dare you to guess what I need. I'll drag a red herring all over your path so you can't figure me out. And if you're not clever enough or caring enough to guess, I won't let you in." (Personally, I've done this to many guys, but I'm starting to think that it's not a good thing. Maybe I should just try to be more open)
Maybe he's wondering the same questions about you? Wouldn't that be funny. What if you just told him how you feel? Just right out in the open. I've never met a scorpio moon who doesn't appreciate a frank discussion about the truth of deep emotion. That would open a new level of trust maybe... most likely.
It just sounds so complicated to decipher his every move, thought, etc. Relationships take time, and trust takes a long time. He probably needs to get to know you to trust you. So just be yourself! If it's meant to be, it's meant to be, if not, then you have another path that's meant for you. Trust your instincts!
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Re: aHhhh
Wed, May 7, 2008 - 10:20 PM"Do you think that scorp moons require patience from others? How can you tell when they're being honest? I was wondering if there's a tendency to test people, or to test their loyalties rather. This is the most frustrating situation because there is an intensity I've never felt before but it's unfolding so slowly and in quite a cryptic manner....how's a girl to deal with a scorp moon male?!"
I am a Scorp Moon and have dated Scorp Moon. Definitely intense and although short-lived(due to extreme jealousies out of both of us), it was an affair to remember. Scorpio Moons do require patience from others. Although I do have a Venus in Aries which makes me rather impulsive in my affairs, if you are going to get close to me and learn about my deepest darkest secrets, you will need to stick around and also not be judgemental when I start blabbing about shit that is really hard to get off my chest. Scorpio Moons are pretty damned honest, unless they have Libra/Gemini/Pisces as Sun signs. Although most everyone can lie, these signs tend to be the people pleasers, causing them to be superficial and liars. Scorp Moons do tend to test people and it is usually in the event to see if others will stick around and if they are okay with the depth of their feelings. With my current mate, I still test him, even though I have been with him almost two years now. I have never let him know everything yet, even yet. But things come to the surface in their own time. I guess I know that with the intensity of my feelings and emotions and what I am able to observe of the world, comes a vulnerability that is much like a little child's vulnerability. We do not really know how to own our feelings, mostly because our society likes to swim on the surface with media, entertainment and popularity contests. Being deep is a curse and a blessing. Those who can't hang will fall off the earth quickly and those who can hang, will tend to stay by your side, which allows you to cultivate a relationship that is timeless and egoless. I would stick around for a bit if I were you. You both showed up in each other's lives, Again, for a reason. If it doesn't crack out like its supposed to be, then you will at least have the good feeling that you tried and nothing came of it. Gotta act on your feelings, Pisces! Much luck to you!
~Elle
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Re: aHhhh
Wed, May 7, 2008 - 10:23 PMAnother thing,
keep an air of mystery to you. Meaning don't let all out immediately, much as he is keeping his cards close to his chest, keep your cards close to the chest. It is such a magnet thing. He'll give a little, you give a little. Just a hint. Scorpio Moons love to feel like they are unleashing a crazy mystery.
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Re: aHhhh
Thu, May 8, 2008 - 3:24 PMhi kiera,
it's not easy dealing with scorpio moons ey?;) i am one myself (-thus i know;). i have been together with scorpio moons and pisces moons. i feel the best for watery moons is other watery moons; at least for scorpios. i believe what you say whe you tell he hasn't forgotten. scorpios does not let go easily if you have had fireworks together, short or long period.
yes, we test peple's loyality. this as we hate inloyality. i red below that someone said we are liars etc; and there might be some of those. in my opinion there are, as you have experienced, truly honest scorpio moons. too honest. i believe in honesty myself. i can take a white lie only when it is to avoid hurting people i care about in a way which is not beneficial for anything. or, if someone is digging too much in an uappropriate way-scorpios could need some time to reveal their inner self. that's just our nature, much because we are the most emotional sign and have to protect ourselves.
if you get inside a scorpio heart-trust me you will never experience deeper dedication. we die for our love. all my previous partners have had problems getting over me for years, they cannot find anything similar.
but do not let anyone manipulate you. never. scorpios can be light or dark, depending on how they use pluto's power. a manipulative scorpio is too little self-conscious and reflective, and thus destructive. he has to cope with is own weaknesses. manipulating people is a primitive way of dealing with things, and will just don't work. i have one rule in my relationships; no mind games.
i can support the suggestion below of confronting him. dare to confront with anything and the scorpio will love you, respect you. and most important: feel trust in you and start open.
pisces has extremely good intution, learn to listen to it. -
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Re: aHhhh
Thu, May 8, 2008 - 4:42 PMHey I didnt mean you where actually liars, what I was saying was is that your so called TRUTH in itself is a lie, because you "plan" things. Like I was saying this may not apply to all scorpio moons but I have noticed that they do seem to plan certain things to come out the winner. So there TRUTH is based on distored half truths, I also notice they seem to have problems answering basic questions.
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Re: aHhhh
Fri, May 9, 2008 - 10:34 AMThank you all for your prompt responses! I appreciate it...something I meant to note that's kind of important is that the reason we stopped seeing each other was because if it went any further the situation would have really hurt someone we both care about. Technically speaking, there was no cheating but we were both being deceptive. I mean you could argue that if something is strong enough it should overcome most obstacles, but I don't see the point in a relationship if it's going to be tainted and surrounded with negativity. It was like bad good news-- ha best way to describe what happened. Bad timing....so I guess I'm just struggling with the halt of things and trying to decide what to do, if anything. Whether to try and be friends or just sit back and let him be in control. He essentially told me to "hang in there" and I know that if I do it's possible that something really good will happen later on. At the same time, there are no guarantees. I'm not a huge fan of singlehood (oh so pisces moon) and I'm having a hard time staying away from my recent ex, a virgo moon. What I feel for this person is comfortable and warm but it pales in comparison to the intensity of scorp moon vibes/feelings. So to sum it up, what happened was when we got together I was kind of with someone...someone we both are close with (virgo moon) then we both freaked out and now he's seeing someone, and apparently it's a similar deal to me and virgo moon. Companionship/caring/physical but the butterflies just aren't there. PHEW! Now despite all that analyzing I will say that I'm not completely pulling my hair out over this. I'm just living my life and trying to be good on my own cus if it's meant to be it will happen, despite how complicated shit is.
Btw, I also have Venus in Taurus and Mars in Cancer....so that explains my caution and tenacity/non-aggressive nature within the situation. He has Venus in Capricorn and Mars in Aries, future-minded and direct, it seems...it's an interesting connection to say the least.
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