somebody needs to take the first step. Maybe that could be you, be courages, persistant and forceful , and dont let him to shut you out. I believe it could open a whole new dimension in your relationship.

I'd suggest something else : shaking the boat or stirring the pot; getting actively into some critical things, so that borders could be torn down in a natural way (I doubt one can let go of/get past blockades consciously or premeditatedly, only by rationally deciding to do so; and just waiting around for them to 'fall' seems pretty dysfunctional). Actually overcoming fear that a crisis might tear you apart. If you have similar defense mechanisms, you'll understand what's happening in the other's psyche and this will not happen.

I was in a 6 month relationship with a fellow scorpio moon, we butted heads like crazy! The one thing that we found common ground was the moments we were away from everyone we knew and could be alone together, no interruptions. It took away the chaos and took away the feeling that everyone was watching us, scorpio moons sometimes get paranoid if people seem to be peeping in on the relationship, even at a far enough distance. We treasure privacy when it comes to love, so having a lot of alone time together away from the world, friends, and family, really helps balance two scorpio moons out in the long run...

As this thread deals with a subject covered in a previous topic ( l o n g time ago ) will re-post with minor editing:

I once dated another Scorpio Moon. Was set up by her cousin who worked for me in a field office. "I don't know, but you two might fit. She's nice looking, can be really interesting, a little intense sometimes, and she's just been dumped by the guy she was engaged to . . She needs to get out.", she said.

"So I'm supposed to take her out, and get her out of your hair because she's driving you nuts?".

"Well, yes"
"OK, only if she is intelligent, can hold a good conversation, and does not need money".

We were introduced at a restaurant that Friday, just after COB, and made eye contact like two radars locking on target.
That first date ended on Sunday afternoon. We brought out the best (and a little of the beast) in each other.

Three other dates followed, with no problems of trust and openness whatsoever.

A few weeks later, guy who dumped her found out about me; and put out 110% effort to get her back.
As I was then in my office 120mi.away, and could not break away, I could do little to counter his moves.

She went back.
For those who say there are such things, it would appear we were "soul mates"


NOTE: One does not have to have gone through personal trauma to have a Scorpio Moon.
Scorpio Moon = emotional trauma = vulnerable is not always a valid equation.

Wow, thank you all for your insight and input. I am letting things happen naturally, this person cannot be rushed and I feel this is an excellent exercise for me to practice really building a relationship on reality and not fantasy. I think it is worth exploring. I feel happy in his company, like his mind and generally enjoy myself with him. His sexual style is very different from mine and is pushing my limits to evolve in that area. I am learning to let go of the fear that controls some very basic part of my existence and that is why I think we met, so that we can both evolve. There are so many complex issues that create barriers for the both of us, this could be the most challenging union I have ever had, it definitely is. It is a lesson, he is my teacher.

Thank you all for responding it is very helpful nobody else can really understand this type of issue with this moon placement.