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Hey there. I'm a Leo Sun/Scorpio moon. I have met many Sun Scorpios in my life, I just seem to draw them in. My brother is a Scorpio and my son is as well. When you come across Scorpios do you have an instant connection with them? And understanding that is spoken without any words? Have you dated Scorpios before? Did it end in bittersweet?
I'm just curious to see fellow Scorpio Moon people relations with Scorpio Sun people.
Please, talk amongst yourselves.
I'm just curious to see fellow Scorpio Moon people relations with Scorpio Sun people.
Please, talk amongst yourselves.
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Re: Scorpio Sun?
Sun, September 6, 2009 - 11:18 PMI really like scorpios and i mostly had pleasent experiences with them. We usually do understand each other, and i enjoy talking to them. I have met scorpio idiots,just like i have met scorpio moon idiots, there are unevolved individuals of all astro configurations i suppose. Scorpios are mostly profound folks, they like to understand other people, understand their motives, see what is behind the surface, so i can sometimes feel paranoid, disturbed around them, couse i feel they can see behind my facade.. i dont always like that
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Sun, September 6, 2009 - 11:19 PMFrom what i've heard there is a big difference between Scorpio sun people and the rest of the Scorpio planets.
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Mon, September 7, 2009 - 1:03 AMI'm a Scorpio Sun + Scorpio Moon (+ Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, Neptune, Dark Moon Lilith & Vesta)
yes, I seem to have an instant connection with other Scorpios (Go Scorpio Team!)
& I'm not the biggest fan of 'words' www.youtube.com/watch
Yes, I dated a Scorpio Sun, Libra Moon, Scorpio ascendant for a while ~ it didn't last, but it was worth it.
I like things to be bittersweet.
love all-ways,
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Mon, September 7, 2009 - 7:19 AMi've had good and bad with scorpio suns. my fathers a scorpio sun and moon. he left when i was an infant.
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Thu, September 24, 2009 - 12:52 AM
"yes, I seem to have an instant connection with other Scorpios (Go Scorpio Team!)
& I'm not the biggest fan of 'words'"
Seconded.
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Mon, September 7, 2009 - 11:08 AMNo, I don't they creep me out... -
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Mon, September 7, 2009 - 6:42 PMyou just have to understand their approach to the world. every signs approach varies. what seems weird or "creepy" is really basic traits. not necessarily something embedded in the mind. of course, anyone can use such traits for good or evil. if you're an asshole, you're an asshole. sign only plays so much of a role unless it's your moon then it becomes much more difficult
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Mon, September 7, 2009 - 9:02 PMI do have a surprising amount of scorpio sun friends, but I am not close to them as I am with other sun signs (primarily Aquarians, Leos, and Taureans). They're really sexually comfortable with themselves, and that factor often scares me (because I am sooo not). This may have to do with the fact that I have an Aquarius stellium, and my sun and their sun are in square (like my scorpio moon is to my Aquarius sun). It is very interesting for me at least, that the majority of my friends have fixed sun signs (including me).
My water sun sign friends tend to understand me at an emotional level that I myself have trouble seeking and understanding, and are very helpful in helping me develop that aspect of myself, and scorpio sun sign friends often really help me with this.
For a good/stable example: My dad is a scorpio sun, and sometimes we get along really well, and when we don't get along, we don't get along at all. I often seem to be making more effort to get along though, which can be very tiresome because he thinks I'm not being responsive when I am just lost in thought, and when I am talkative, he thinks whatever I am saying is absolutely worthless because I'm focusing completely on theory and am not being "realistic" enough. I am also not as "touchy-feely" as he tends to be, so he thinks I'm not being a "good daughter". It doesn't help that his moon is in detrimental position (capricorn), and mine is in fall position (scorpio). Thus we have an inherent understanding of each other at some level, but our expression often is not synchronized, causing misunderstandings and problems.
For a bad example: I had a scorpio sun sign roommate my first year of law school, and she drove me crazy with her insecurities and vain nature... my answer never changed when it came to what I thought was her best feature, but she'd ask me several times as if that would validate her beauty or something... when I studied MBTI and Jung personality theories, I'd learned that my Fe/Fi (feeling) nature wasn't as developed compared with my other female friends (I'm INTJ/most of my friends are NF's), so I tend to come off as being cold/sarcastic when asked about superficial things that do not have some theoretical weight behind them. And because I am not as in touch with emotions, they tend to just build on top of each other, and I face weird emotional troubles without knowing why I am feeling that way, to my detriment.
ANYWAYS, enough about boring old me...
It's either a 100% hit or miss situation with scorpio sun friends. They can help me understand an aspect of myself that I have trouble understanding (and often don't bother with) by providing me with insight I don't have, but at the same time, too much of their influence, and I become emotionally unstable because I can't stand the constant emotional depth they seem to love plunging into without any trouble.
They're very sexually confident and have a very real understanding of it; I think of sex in sort of a detached, theoretical view and am not as confident as they are... and we clash when we talk about it or try to understand the others' point of view. They can't understand how I think of sex, and I can't imagine their world of sex. It's just very different.
I definitely value their input... as long as it's not 24/7 and I have some time to myself. :) -
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Tue, September 8, 2009 - 6:00 AMbeing a scorpio moon the ole sexually confident thing hmm. i dunno about the suns, all i know being me is that i "know" what i want when i'm physically with someone.. maybe the detachment you experience is uncerntainty of what your mind and body crave? i dated a scorpio sun. a long time childhood friend and when it came right now to it, i found our make out experience to be a bit awkward and uncomfortable lol. it may have just been cause i knew him for like ten years and had a crush on him the whole time. i also believe he had another ulterior motive to break things up with another guy i was on and off with. i had given the guy my virginity and he is a pisces moon/sun taurus lol. anyway im not too much sure how much the sun scorpio played a roll. all i know is whatever skill he thought he had just seemed juvenile to me loooooooool so even if they are sexually confident in the sun signs, doesn't mean they have skill looooool they may just know what they like -
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Tue, September 8, 2009 - 3:03 PMsexually confident. yes thats a good description! I like it.
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Tue, September 8, 2009 - 3:56 PMOh, I know there is a difference between being sexually confident and actually being good at sex.
The thing with me is, because my moon and sun are square, even if I think I know what I want, I'm not actually sure, so I often find myself thinking about it. My intuition (scorpio moon) must be supported by some rational thought or reason (aquarius sun), and if I don't find it, I won't act on it. Even if I think someone is sexually attractive, I'll first think about why I am thinking that (calculate the time of the month, any other social factors, etc., etc.) instead of acting on that impulse. In that aspect, my Scorpio sun friends are like, "don't think, just go!" It's that confidence which awes me and catches me scared at the same time.
Another thing is, you know it when they're jealous. I tend to laugh off my jealousy as my inefficiency, but they really show it off, almost making me wonder, "Aren't they embarrassed at how little control they have over their emotions?", when I myself don't know when to let out emotions and end up blowing off at random.
It's very.. interesting, to say the least. :) -
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Tue, September 8, 2009 - 4:01 PMsounds like someone whos' been stung a few times -
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Tue, September 8, 2009 - 4:20 PMuh.. actually, I've never been stung. I just think before moving, always.
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Tue, September 8, 2009 - 4:31 PMit is kinda interesting to find someone who analyses so much. I like how you are very open about it, too. Some people I have met are into analysing things, too. It sucks when they hide it and judge you even while you are close friends.
I knew a girl once who I really adored. She was so cool until she started to analyse things and make a fuss about small stuff that she couldn't give us enough of a chance to bloom the relationship. People always told me she was a bit wacky, but you know how the old saying goes about love being blind. She sure wasn't blind. She was a walking CSI lab. To this day she is still a conflicted person. Anyway, I am much wiser about it and now I can spot it a mile away. I am not saying its bad. Its just different. I guess it is these types of people that write astrology and describe scorps as scary and intense. Its not for everyone.
I know my sun sign in scorpio makes me jealous and intense. Sometimes violent if provoked enough. But when I have these emotions, I just dont give a fuck what anyone else thinks at the time. I ride it. There is no shame. On the other side of this intensity coin, I have felt very happy and elated with so much positive energy , I have become generous.
As for the sexually confident thing. I find the best loves have been the ones who are sexually confident. They are usually good at it. Ones who lack the confidence are rather inhibited .Weather its about their body, or their emotions. They just need a little push in the right direction to feel safe and let themselves go. -
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Tue, September 8, 2009 - 4:50 PMI wish I could stop analyzing everything until they're dead, but it's automatic thing (I blame my aquarius stellium!! LOL). This is why I like and value my Leo, Taurus, and Scorpio sun friends (most of my friends have fixed sun signs, but at the same time, they seem to usually have a water moon sign, which is really interesting also); they push me to be less analytical and more "in the moment"; at the same time, I tend to be the person that makes the decisions because they usually benefit everyone equally.. again, good and bad.
Some of the things you've described is the very essence of what I find intriguing and scary at the same time. Riding that "emotion wave" is very foreign to me, and when I do experience it, I'm not surfing it like you are and going with the flow; I'm getting pounded on and trying to run back to the beach for survival. I'm not sure if all "Scorpio moon" people feel this way, or whether this is due to the very strong square relationship in my chart between the water sign and the air sign... that warrants more research.
As for being sexually confident, it certainly attracts the opposite sex (or in some case, the same sex) a lot more if one is confident about his/her sexuality... further, remember that the moon is in its fall position at Scorpio, unlike the Scorpio sun. What comes easy to the Scorpio sun people may not be the same for the Scorpio moon people who often have trouble in that very arena where you're not having any trouble in. But like you said, they may need that little push to let themselves go, but I think even before the little push, a very high level of trust must be established for the scorpio moon to go with that "push". -
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Wed, September 9, 2009 - 12:05 PMThats a hard one Hikachu. But I get it. Do you find that you get along better with others who are simmillar to you in the way of being analytical about things?
It is funny how you said earlier that your scorp dad was a touchy feely guy.......I am a scorp with an aquarius dad and HE is the more touchy feely guy. My dad is actually the more emotional and volatile. -
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Wed, September 9, 2009 - 4:00 PMActually a lot of my friends are MBTI NF's (Idealists), who do not necessarily analyze everything and every nook.
My dad doesn't show it in an obvious way, but you know it's happening by the subtle actions. -
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Wed, September 9, 2009 - 5:16 PMNow that I think about it, my dad is a very analytical person but he also combines that with judgemental and thats where we get into conflicts and he wont get off my back. I wonder if he thinks I am a psycho just as much as I think HE is. Probably does. I love my ol' man. -
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Fri, September 11, 2009 - 9:57 AMI love my dad as much as he loves me; we just have a different way of showing it. People don't argue with those they don't care about; argument occurs because people have genuine worries and interest for the other but views it through their own lenses as to what the problem and answers are, after all. :)
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Re: Scorpio Sun?
Tue, October 20, 2009 - 12:42 PMHikarukin,
INTJ is a type that relates pretty well to Aquarius (though, in MBTI terms, I guess Ni has more to do with Scorpio, but it makes sense after all). I find INTJ one of the most reasonable and fair of the so-called T types.
What you say about that Scorpio sun sounds pretty strange - most of them are not that exaggerated. (Vain or at lesat proud like hell they may be, but not that insecure - at least not on the surface).
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Fri, September 11, 2009 - 1:09 PMI haven't actually gotten to know a lot of Scorpio Suns very well, but I tend to get along quite well with the ones I do know. I know a lot more Scorpio Moons and Ascendants, for whatever reason. I think part of the deal, with Scorpio Suns, is that I don't tend to push very hard to get to know most people. I do a bit of sending out signals and hoping and/or waiting for people to come to me (with the exception of some romantic attractions). This might be a rather Taurean approach (I'm a Taurus Sun) to making friends and getting to know people... rather laid back and sorta passive. I am passionately interested in people, as a species, and I love talking to strangers (Gem. Rising), but I don't push people very much in most instances. I think I detect and am sometimes wary of penetrating the Scorpio Sun guardedness. And that's actually a shame, because they're interesting folks and I think we're likely to have a lot in common.
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Tue, September 22, 2009 - 7:24 PMThe funny thing is that when I am doing something like writing text messages in my cell phone there is someone watching behind me and this is a scorpio sun person. I dont know how easily they can appear and dissappear right away... they have fast legs or their shoes dont make any noise at all.
Scorpio sun people are very sensitive and I can feel that so I always try to be smooth on my conversations with them. I laugh with them all the time, I understand them and they understand me to the point of feeling empathy. They have extreme feelings of fear, happiness, anger and I just can relate to all these. They are extremely funny, make jokes about everything and thats what I like... they seem to be serious people but actually they are not. They always are watching and checking what I am doing and they feel paranoid when I am doing the same as they do.
My employee is a scorpio sun guy who is a good worker. He cleans everything and try to help me when I need help. He is a lemonade addict. I do the lemonade and he is always watching me when I am finishing doing it so he can drink. it I tell him that I have lemonade reserved to him but he drinks it all. I try to tell him not to drink too much because there wont be enough lemonade for the customers. Anyways, he is not drinking that much now. How comes he likes lemonade that much? This is a problem that i deal with scorpio sun people, they are obsessive compulsive in something. I am that too but I try to control it... I used to blame my capricorn rising for taking seriously my "control" attitude but now i see that scorpio moon people make use of the word "control" as one of the 10 commandments.
Haha, yesterday, I hid at the storage room that is behind the kitchen; he was singing too loud and believing himself he is a rock star. He is actually 37 years old and he believes he is a good singer. I was laughing, what a horrible voice haha. He didnt noticed that I was listening and watching him. -
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Tue, September 22, 2009 - 11:53 PMHika,
I am on the same boat. My intuitions(Scorpio moon) conflict with my rational thoughts (Gemini sun/possible Virgo asc). If you overanalyze things, I OVERanalyze things to the 9000000000000000000th degree. I love detail, I talk too much. Emotions come either secondary or are non-existent in most cases but thats me :) -
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Tue, September 22, 2009 - 11:54 PMAnd my dad is a scorpio sun too so getting alone with him is a hot or cold situation. Right now, we(well I) dont talk to him as much. I seriously dont why. lol -
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Tue, October 20, 2009 - 12:45 PMHika, just out of curiosity - what type is your Scorpio sun father?
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Fri, September 25, 2009 - 7:20 AMI can get along great with scorpio's, just like everybody else there are good, bad and neutral. One of my boyz is a scorpio sun, sag moon and we crack each other up. We match up very well as friends but that does not mean we all ways agree because we don't. We sometimes agree to disagree, we are insightful for each other and have each others back with honor. There are 2 scorpio woman prospects that I have growing interest for. Ironically they both have pisces moon (rubbing hands together with a grin LOL) I felt an energy from all them, especially the 2 with pisces moon and we communicate without any spoken words, so far. They feel me and we are sparking interest in each other. Scorpio friends male or female have always respected how I have loyalty, honor and deep understanding of many things. As for my experiences with scorpio woman, sex was mmmm mmmm good, and mentally / spiritually stimulating. -
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Tue, October 20, 2009 - 12:58 PMMy dad is a scorpio sun to, but he has more of the bruce lee scorpion vibe than the normal sun ones.
My dad will never give up, he has been trough shit that i can't even believe, but he has never EVER bitched about it. That for me is scorpio energy, the survival energy, KNOWING you will survive. -
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Tue, October 20, 2009 - 1:01 PMHe is also the only person that can make me back down from a verbal fist fight, because i know he won't quit, and he has that old man scorpio vibe going on, i'm not going to fuck around with that haha. -
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Tue, October 20, 2009 - 10:02 PMDitto. Our fathers should be best pals...><
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